The theory that advances the freedom of the human soul is the one theory that does not lay the blame of all our weaknesses upon somebody else. When you find yourself suffering, blame yourself and try to do better. This is the only solution. Take the whole responsibility on your own shoulders, and know that you are the creator of your own destiny. All the strength and succor you want is within yourself. Therefore, make your own future. The infinite future is before you. You must always remember that each word, thought, and deed lays up a store for you, and that as the bad thoughts are ready to spring upon you like tigers, so also are the good thoughts and good deeds ready with the power of a hundred thousand angels to defend you always and forever.
~ Swami Vivekananda